Benafsha Efaf had just 10 minutes to decide whether to accept an offer to be extricated from Afghanistan. On one hand, she and her husband were in the Taliban’s crosshairs, and she feared deeply for the safety of her 8-year-old daughter. On the other, leaving meant abandoning her parents, her siblings, and her life’s work: creation of a network of 33 shelters for women suffering from domestic violence.